Stalking

Stalking refers to repeated, threatening behavior that leads to concern or fear about personal safety. Individual stalking behaviors are not necessarily illegal or against university policy (e.g., texting, waiting for someone outside a classroom). However, when these acts are unwanted, there can be an implied threat in the repetition of behavior and tone of contact.

Stalking is serious and dangerous. Stalking behaviors can escalate over time and may involve physical violence. However, stalking often goes underreported, because many stalkers employ activities that may seem to be harmless. For example, stalkers may call or text repeatedly or leave gifts. It is necessary to recognize patterns of behavior that are obsessive, threatening or harmful.

Common stalking behaviors include:

Following the person or repeatedly showing up unexpectedly at the person's class, work, favorite coffee shop, etc.
Sending unwanted gifts, letters, cards or e-mails
Repeatedly calling or texting
Monitoring activities such as phone calls, computer use or schedule
Using technology to track the person such as hidden cameras, computer viruses, GPS devices, social media or tracking apps
Repeatedly driving by places where the person spends time
Causing damage to the person’s home, car or other property
Making threats to a person or tothat person's family, friends or pets
Gathering information about someone through internet searches, social media or hired investigators or by contacting friends, family, classmates or co-workers
Sifting through someone's trash or belongings
Engaging in actions meant to control, track or frighten someone

If someone's pattern of behavior frightens you, you can work with a Voices Against Violence counselor to learn about your rights and create a safety plan.